Well, the NFL Draft is history, and with the exception of a few
mini-camps, we're about to enter the dark times of nothing but
baseball. But, it does work out for me and for you because I'm a
lot more productive during these "dark ages" because I'm not
constantly wasting time reading all the football websites.
Today I'm going to talk about an extremely controversial subject.
And quite frankly, I'm going to piss a few of you guys off because
I'm going to challenge the way you view the world. But I'm also
going to have an equal number of guys say, "Yeah, right on King,
it's about time someone has the guts to say that" because you've
experienced what I'm going to talk about.
OK, on to today's "controversial subject," and that is this: why
it is essential you sleep with a woman as fast as possible if you
want to have a relationship with her.
There are a lot of doofus psychologists out there who claim "study
after study" proves that couples who "wait" to have sex have more
Here's what this silliness leaves out: all the relationships that
DIDN'T HAPPEN because the guy waited (just like society says to do)
and she went off and slept with a jerk who "flipped her attraction
triggers," killing what could have been a really good relationship.
Ever had that happen to you, guys? You met a great woman, there
was an attraction, but you decided to be a "sensitive guy" and
wait, and then she bolted and you had no idea why?
Yeah, I know it's never happened to any guy, ever.
Here's the truth of the matter: if you really like her, you need
to sleep with her as fast as possible. It's a very powerful
psychological phenomena called "commitment and consistency." I
don't have time to go into it here, but you can read all about it
by spending the Kingly sum of $19.95 at amazon.com on the book,
"Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion" by Robert B. Cialdini.
Every single one of you guys NEEDS to read this book.
Am I saying you need to do it on the first date? No, and in fact I
don't think it's a good idea, unless you just want to have a purely
physical relationship with her. You need to be able to test her to
see if she's worthy to spend time with you (I teach you how to do
this in my book, Secrets of Natural Attraction--
But as soon as you've made that determination, you need to get her
into bed as fast as possible, in a way that feels natural to her,
that makes her feel like you're a "powerful man." Now that does
NOT mean "tricking" or "hard closing" her. Not at all. If you do
that, she's sleeping with you to avoid an uncomfortable, pressure
filled situation, which is obviously not conducive to any
relationship. You want her to sleep with you out of desire,
passion, and genuine attraction... which, if you read my book
carefully, you can quickly create and amplify.
If you don't close the deal quickly, she'll begin to feel nervous
around you, and second guess her feelings of attraction to you.
And if another guy comes along who does demonstrate authority,
she'll head for him, not for you. None of you have ever had that
Guys, as much as I hate it, this is the way the world works, the
way the world is. We live in reality, not what "should be." When
it comes to women and relationships the "should be world" says, "be
a nice guy, wait until she's ready, until the time is right, etc.,
etc." In the real world, where you and I live, you have to close
the deal as soon as possible in a way that feels natural to her, or
another guy (maybe one of my hard-working students) will come along
and close the deal with her before you do. And you'll be cheated
out of what could have been a wonderful relationship.
So, the next time any "psychologist" starts spouting off about
"studies," ask them this question: If you're so smart about how
the mind works, how come you ain't rich? That'll shut 'em up
pretty dang quick.
On with the fun....
"The King of Let 'em Come to You"
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